Reactance
The rebellious instinct. The unpleasant motivational arousal that emerges when people experience a threat to or loss of their free behaviors.
"Don't Tell Me What to Do"
Tell a teenager not to date someone, and they will want to date them more. Tell a citizen they cannot buy a certain book, and that book becomes a bestseller.
This is Psychological Reactance, a theory proposed by Jack Brehm in 1966. It states that when a person's behavioral freedom is threatened or eliminated, they experience a state of agitation (reactance) that motivates them to restore that freedom.
The Romeo and Juliet Effect
Reactance manifests in two ways:
- Direct Restoration: Performing the forbidden behavior. (e.g., Drinking alcohol because it is banned).
- Attitude Change: The forbidden object becomes more attractive purely because it is forbidden. This is often called the "Romeo and Juliet Effect"—parental opposition intensifies the romantic feelings.
Application in Persuasion
This explains why aggressive sales tactics or authoritative commands often fail.
- Command: "You must buy this now!" -> Reaction: "Don't control me." (No purchase).
- Choice: "This is available if you want it, but the choice is yours." -> Reaction: Autonomy preserved. (Higher likelihood of purchase).
To experiment with reactance, use Reverse Psychology. By forbidding something you actually want someone to do, you can trigger their reactance to do it. (Note: This is manipulative and risky).
"Prohibition does not mean elimination; it means high value."